by Panagiotis D. Christofilakos
published in The Faris Newsletter, Issue 83, December 2025, page 27
Marriage constituted and continues to constitute one of the most important events for community life in our villages and especially for the families and relatives of the newlyweds. The institution of the dowry was a prerequisite for the creation of marriage and at the same time became a special event with the habits and customs that accompanied the dowry.

(Calendar 2022 of the Association of Women of Anogia “The Refugee”)
In Anogia in earlier times, a few days before the wedding, customarily on Thursday because weddings were held mainly on Sunday, the groom with his close relatives and friends, would harness the horses and mules in the late afternoon and prepare to go to the bride’s house. They wore their best clothes and even on the animals they placed kilimia (woven rugs) on their backs, so that they would also be decorated. They loaded the baskets and proceeded to the bride’s house accompanied by local singers and musicians. The bride’s family awaited them with the dowries ready. They were mainly clothes, woven fabrics for every occasion, blankets, rugs and general household utensil such as trays, dishes and whatever else the family could provide. After the dowries were presented to the groom’s family, the bride’s relatives sat on the trunks and only left when the groom paid them in gold, so that the dowries could then be loaded onto the animals. The families mingled at the lavish table that had been prepared, dancing followed and wishes were exchanged for the upcoming wedding. The neighbors of the bride’s house gathered around, listening to the songs, and participated in the couple’s joy. In fact, the groom’s friends had an unwritten custom of “stealing” something small from the bride’s house, such as the glass they drank their wine in, or even a plate, etc.
The wedding day was special. The relatives had gathered early at the bride’s house and the women of the family and the bride’s friends took charge of her preparations, singing wedding songs. Before departing, the musicians arrived and the bride danced together with her family. Later on, they all left the house together and the instrumentalists played the patináda (wedding procession music).
The procession arrived at the church, where the groom was waiting at the door with his family and the priest. At the end of the ceremony, a commemorative photo was taken in front of the church. The wedding reception took place at the groom’s house, where the couple would live permanently. The meal was prepared by professional village cooks with the help of relatives, consisting mainly of roasted meats on spits and stews. At the end, the wedding chamber was decorated with a wish for fertility and a happy life.
I (Carol Kostakos Petranek) am honored to receive permission from the Katsoulakos family to translate and share articles from The Faris. Translation verification and corrections have been made by GreekAncestry.net. This is the twenty-fifth article of the ongoing series. Previous articles can be viewed here.









